Spanking Survey!!

I found this survey on one of my favorite blogs, The Taming of the Shrew, and thought it would be fun to do!

1.) Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking interest? If so, feel free to share:

50 Shades of Grey. I read the book and was extremely attracted to the whole idea of dominance and submission, punishments, and spankings. 

2.) What do you most often call your HOH/Spanker? (Sir, Master, etc.)

Sir or Baby

3.) What does your HOH/Spanker most often call you? (Young Lady, Girl, etc)

Babe or Baby

4.) We're building a big spanko bonfire, which one implement are you bringing to toss in?

The heavy wooden paddle 

5.) We all know how many punishments there are to choose from; spanking, lecturing, corner time, etc.. but what about rewards? Do you have a favorite 'reward' that is used? If not, what's something you'd like used as a reward?

Good Girl Spankings :)

6.) What's that one phrase, that when it's used, you know you're in trouble?

Go get the paddle 

7.) What's something you'd like to cross off your spanking bucket list? Being shy is not an option here people. ;)

I may be nuts for saying this but I really want to try a cane. 

8.) Someone comes to you, and says they just started practicing domestic discipline. What's the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

Take it slow and communicate 

9.) Where is the craziest place you've been spanked?

No where too crazy. I have been threatened with spankings in more public place but (thankfully!) they never happened

10.) We talked about a spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it.. what about a BDSM style bucket list? What's something you'd like to cross off of that?

We started out with BDSM so we have tried pretty much everything. :) 

11.) Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying and finding effective?

Corner time 

12.) What is something you wish you knew before you started DD/TTWD?

Not to rush it

13.) If you could take a break from one rule, for one week, which rule would it be?

I chore that I am suppose to do every other day

14.) This might sound like a no brainer at first, but really think about it. If you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would you rather it be discipline or fun?

Discipline. I LOVE Good Girl spankings but I need discipline spankings and so does our relationship 

15.) If your HOH/Spanker messed up, and offered to let you spank them, would you? Why/Why not?

No. It would just feel wrong and out of balance

16.) What is your favorite form of aftercare?

Sex or Cuddling 

17.) How was DD/spanking brought up to you, or how did you bring it up to your partner?

I brought it up. I told Bryan about 50 Shades of Grey and that the whole D/s dynamic was attractive to me and he agreed to start it.

18.) If your spanker could use only one implement from here on out, what would they use?

The Lexan Paddle 

19.) Do you have a favorite pair of panties to wear when you know you're going to be spanked? If so, what are they?

No

20.) Unfortunately/fortunately (depending on how you look at it) mind reading hasn't yet been perfected. What's something you want your HOH/Dom/Spanker to know? (For example, don't be afraid to spank harder, or something along those lines.) Don't be afraid, spill!

Probably don't be afraid to spank harder and Thank you for fulling this need I have to be submissive.
Also even though I sometimes whine about it, I like it when you are strict with me. 

*Bonus Question (just because it's fun)- Is there a picture (spanking, dd, Ds, etc related) that you just really love? If so, let's see it!

I really like this picture. I think its very sexy and whenever I look at it, it gives me the same feeling that I get when Bryan is pulling my panties down :)

And the wait is over!

I started writing this post last week and have now just gotten around to finishing it. :)


I'm writing this blog post on a pretty sore little bottom. I received two pretty tough spankings yesterday. I lived and I am glad it is over!! :)

The first spanking I received was for going WAY over my shopping budget....like 3x over..opps. Lol! So I love clothes and fashion and I love to shop! Too much! I have gotten myself into financial trouble over it. 

Because of this my boyfriend set a clothing budget for $100 a month and no using store credit cards. If I was going to buy anything over the budget, I need to consult with Bryan. Fair enough. Its actually is VERY good for me to have a low budget. 

Well this weekend one of my best friends was in town and we went shopping, And I lost my mind. I got a skirt, a dress, a top, and a jacket. At that point I had already gone $70 over my budget. But I didn't stop there! I went to the shoe department and saw these beautiful Michael Kors strappy sandals. I tried them on and loved them even more! So I bought them on my store credit card.... opps AND they were over $100.... opps.

When I got home reality hit me like a ton of bricks. I broke two rules blatantly. I finally got up the courage to tell Bryan. He was not pleased. He told me I was in big trouble and when he had the chance I would have a very sore behind. 

So when my friend left it was over Bryan's knee for me. :( He put me over his knee, bared my bottom, and started with his hand for a warm up. He than moved on to the Lexan paddle. I hate that thing! It stings like hell! It was the longest spanking I have ever had. I never thought it would end. But it did and I survived! 

Later that evening I got spanked for being VERY disresepctful. It was also a long spanking and hurt that much more because of the pervious spanking. 

I deserved both of these spankings and was almost grateful for them. I felt a little out of control again with my shopping and having Bryan enforce the rules put everything back in control. It felt wonderful to have boundaries and to have someone hold me accountable for my behavior. I am very lucky :)

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Waiting for Spankings.....

So sorry I have not posted in a while. I just started school and working more and have not had a lot of time to blog. Also other than a few minor incidents I have been fairly good and really have not had a punishment spanking in a week or two...which is a long time for me....and haven't had anything to write about.

Well that all ended this weekend. I had a very good friend come to visit for a few days. Which was so much fun and I loved seeing her! But my respect and submission diminished.

I think because I knew Bryan couldn't spank me, since my friend was staying with us, I got it in my head that it was "no rules" weekend. Well I was wrong. There were still rules and I broke them and I'm now facing multiple spankings. :( :( :(

And what is worse is I don't know when they are coming. My bf doesn't usually give me a specific time of when he is going to spank me because he knows not knowing drives me nuts!! It really adds to the punishment!

Not knowing when or how bad the spanking is going to be (I'm guessing pretty bad), drives me nuts! I hate waiting for a spanking to begin with and not knowing when its is coming makes it that much worse.

Until all the spankings are over I go through a crazy extremes of emotions; from just wanting to get all the spankings over with now to wanting to put them off for as long as possible! Its a weird place to be in! LOL!

I'm working on trying to accept that I will be find myself in this position a lot over the next few days....